The goal of the reunion date should be to simply reconnect and realize that the two of you can get along together. You want to have fun with your ex – the same type of playful, flirty fun you used to have when you first began dating each other.

Bookstores- This kind of goes along with the coffee shop, sometimes they are attached, but bookstores usually have quality girls who can actually read there and if you can formulate a nice approach it is a great place and a good atmosphere.

Be generous. If someone sends you a referral thank them immediately and generously. A good way is with a simple gift card from a place like Starbucks, Tim Hortons or a local restaurant. Remember, you are not incentivizing them to make you money, but rather to allow you the opportunity to provide service to others. Whether you make a dime or not on providing a service doesn’t diminish the value of the referral, and the implicit trust implied by it.

Accept That Nervousness Is a Natural Part of Any Performing. Long time well-known performers across many venues STILL get very nervous before their performances, yet they manage to give very creditable performances, time and again.

As mentioned earlier, if you are terribly busy, you are probably also experiencing a lot of stress. Exercise helps reduce stress, anger and sadness by releasing neurotransmitters called endorphins. This is the exact same way that most antidepressants work, but walking is free and does not require a prescription, which is wonderful if your stress is because you do not have health insurance.